We've all heard the saying: what we go through in life is either a lesson or a blessing. There's truth to it of course, I mean everyone has gone through something that's made them a better person today. In hindsight what you've dealt with since childhood ultimately affects you now. From friendships, relationships, jobs and everything in between there's always a message behind them as to why they worked out or didn't. I think in order to live your best life you have to always accept what can't be changed and realize that everything happens for a reason. I've always believed manifesting in what you want, you know do good and good comes to you, the laws of attraction and good karma. If you put your energy into negativity and wrong things you won't accomplish what you want or be happy. Accomplishing those three things or even trying to you have to accept and move on. Remember in the first Transformers movie when Sam said "50 years from now when you're looking back on your life don't you want to say you had the guts to get in the car ?" That should apply to any decision you make. If you pass on a opportunity, a life changing opportunity you won't know what can come out of it. Think about it, after Sam and Mikaela got in the car they had a crazy and dangerous adventure to save Optimus and the world. Not to mention they got a camero that transforms and they ended up together. My point is to take risks and go after what you're afraid of; you won't know the outcome unless you try. So what if it doesn't turn out how you hoped ? There's always more chances and opportunities out there. That's how you should live life, by taking chances and always manifesting happiness and personal growth. You get the best out of life that way and you shouldn't let staying in a comfort zone affect that. If there's certain things you want you can attract them, that's the beauty of manifestation you can attract whatever is it you want: love, friends, happiness, money it can be anything. Your focus determines your reality so reflect the things you desire and trust the timing of what comes your way.